Getting ready for divorce could mean that you need to do certain things.
Of course there is always the personal and emotional aspects of it that each person needs to come to terms with on their own, but there are counselors that could possibly help.
Beyond that there are different physical things that you can do.
Gathering evidence and making copies of different paperwork should be your first step.
After you have everything you can think of you should contact a lawyer and take all the paperwork with you.
Do not be surprised if there is more that your lawyer needs you to get, we cannot think of everything.
You should go over the divorce laws with your lawyer too so that you know what to expect.
After you have talked with the lawyer and before you actually present the other party with paperwork you should make sure you have all the other information that the lawyer needs and then start the daunting task of getting separate accounts for yourself.
This is important because you can them be assured that you have money for your needs that your partner cannot access and deplete on you.
There is more involved in getting ready for divorce, but this should give you a good idea of where to start and what things you can do.
One of the worst things about divorce is the feeling of helplessness.
Situations tend to spiral out of control and you are simply swept along.
Actually doing something can make that seem less of the case and get you feeling better about the whole circumstance because in the back of your mind you know you are doing something make it better in the long run.