Things I Have Learned From Women Who Have Dumped Me
OK, I can say it with ease now, A woman has dumped me.
At least once, here I don not just want to admit, actually.
And, this really hurts; I have to say that I have learnt from this painful experience.
So, here are some things I've learned from all the women who have dumped me.
Things I've Learned from Women Who've Dumped Me #1: It's not your partner's fault alone.
The easiest way to deal with a break up is to blame the other person for your suffering.
That is not always true although it is relieving; I would say it in your face that if the relationship was not working, you definitely are part of the problem.
Evaluate what went wrong so that you can have the experience for your future relationships.
Things I've Learned from Women Who've Dumped Me #2: Give women the space they need.
Women like to cuddle and snuggle.
To be treated with passion but to be kept to enjoy their private moments, you may think they are always around.
But they need their personal space too, just like you.
Men are more tending to be possessive.
We want to keep the control over women by asking where they're going and what they're doing there.
This is more obvious in a man who had a cheating experience with a woman.
But, to survive the relationship you have to trust your partner.
When you occupy her last sanctuary and the private space she has, you are practically telling her that you don't trust her.
This can easily lead to the break up.
Things I've Learned from Women Who've Dumped Me #3: The hit that does not kill you makes you stronger.
When you wake up many sleepless nights and the heartbreak's so unbearable, you may believe that you will never recover from the break up.
But the truth is that not only does time heal pain as they usually say, but you will come out from the break up as a stronger one.
You come stronger by the time Things I've Learned from Women Who've Dumped Me #4: Accept the facts if you can not do anything.
Accept that a relationship wasn't meant to last and you were not meant for each other is crucial thing in healing process.
If you had started imagining the future of your relationship - considering marriage and having kids - and then everything went bad, consider it a blessing.
It is better to end a relationship that wasn't meant to be earlier, because as you involve more, it is harder to heal or to start a new healthy relationship.
Things I've Learned from Women Who've Dumped Me #5: You have control over your life and choices.
Finally, the last lesson I want to share with you is that good things will not happen until you want to make them happen, you can not control what really had happened, but you have full control to how you react to that.
If you want good things to happen in the future, you have to work for good things now.
That means getting resume your normal life.
Hang out, meet new people.
Have some fun.
Eventually, you will find another woman that deserve your love and passion, and, if you have committed to the advice you have been told in this article about things I've learned from women who've dumped me, Your new relationship(s) will be even better and stronger than the one you have just went out of.
At least once, here I don not just want to admit, actually.
And, this really hurts; I have to say that I have learnt from this painful experience.
So, here are some things I've learned from all the women who have dumped me.
Things I've Learned from Women Who've Dumped Me #1: It's not your partner's fault alone.
The easiest way to deal with a break up is to blame the other person for your suffering.
That is not always true although it is relieving; I would say it in your face that if the relationship was not working, you definitely are part of the problem.
Evaluate what went wrong so that you can have the experience for your future relationships.
Things I've Learned from Women Who've Dumped Me #2: Give women the space they need.
Women like to cuddle and snuggle.
To be treated with passion but to be kept to enjoy their private moments, you may think they are always around.
But they need their personal space too, just like you.
Men are more tending to be possessive.
We want to keep the control over women by asking where they're going and what they're doing there.
This is more obvious in a man who had a cheating experience with a woman.
But, to survive the relationship you have to trust your partner.
When you occupy her last sanctuary and the private space she has, you are practically telling her that you don't trust her.
This can easily lead to the break up.
Things I've Learned from Women Who've Dumped Me #3: The hit that does not kill you makes you stronger.
When you wake up many sleepless nights and the heartbreak's so unbearable, you may believe that you will never recover from the break up.
But the truth is that not only does time heal pain as they usually say, but you will come out from the break up as a stronger one.
You come stronger by the time Things I've Learned from Women Who've Dumped Me #4: Accept the facts if you can not do anything.
Accept that a relationship wasn't meant to last and you were not meant for each other is crucial thing in healing process.
If you had started imagining the future of your relationship - considering marriage and having kids - and then everything went bad, consider it a blessing.
It is better to end a relationship that wasn't meant to be earlier, because as you involve more, it is harder to heal or to start a new healthy relationship.
Things I've Learned from Women Who've Dumped Me #5: You have control over your life and choices.
Finally, the last lesson I want to share with you is that good things will not happen until you want to make them happen, you can not control what really had happened, but you have full control to how you react to that.
If you want good things to happen in the future, you have to work for good things now.
That means getting resume your normal life.
Hang out, meet new people.
Have some fun.
Eventually, you will find another woman that deserve your love and passion, and, if you have committed to the advice you have been told in this article about things I've learned from women who've dumped me, Your new relationship(s) will be even better and stronger than the one you have just went out of.
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