Orgasm is always free unless you are trying to make something out of it.
I find it very vital to understand some things about sex and relationships.
So, to give you a jump start on sex, you must know that there are three major kinds of sexual stimulation.
These kinds of stimulation include G-spot, clitoral and vaginal stimulation.
When you combine all of these, you will definitely expect a pleasurable orgasm from your woman.
To begin with, you need to know how to explore and experiment about your bodies and how things work.
Feel free to find the hot spots and guide her to find yours.
However, since women take time to build up their sexual arousal, you need to take this window of opportunity to take the first turn of stimulating her.
Then, you can go to experimentation of the different positions that you both are comfortable and will have the maximum stimulation possible.
But as I have said, you do not need your own stimulation at the first cycle of your sexual interaction.
Be sure that you take time in achieving her full focus and concentration on the pleasures of the moment.
As a head start, try not to rush things with her.
You know very well how slow the sexual tension is building up inside and outside of a woman's body therefore you need to exercise patience on this.
Tune her to what is going on her body and the effect her pleasure is doing to you to the point of driving you both wild of desire.
Achieving orgasms does not really mean you have to penetrate her.
Sometimes you can give this orgasm through utilizing your fingers and tongue.
And mind you, your fingers and tongue is your most powerful tool to give her the most wonderful and amazing orgasms that she will ever experience.
Once you achieve the steady rising of the sexual momentum, you need to keep going and going until she reaches the point of no return.
Some women may not experience orgasm even once in their entire life but you can make a difference and turn the tables on.
Be the one who can lead her to this very pleasurable feeling ever existed in this lifetime.
You can start by doing things correctly.
All you need to do is to remember always not to put pressure or expect anything from her.
As I have said, not all women will experience orgasm in their lives while some others will achieve this elusive pleasure as easy as breathing.
In order to avoid faking it, you need to start of by reassuring her that her orgasm is not what you are after.
What you are truly after is the pleasure that both of you can get in this sexual interaction.