Approaching Women During The Daytime - Coffee Shops
Coffee shops are my prime place for approaching women during the day. That's where probably 90% of the girls I've dated came from. They're bored because if they're at the coffee shop, they're either waiting for someone or they're working or studying. Either way, they'd love a distraction. You also have lots of opportunities for movement at coffee shops.
When is the best time to go to coffee shops? I started ranging it. In my experience, the best time is between 8 and 10 in the morning, and again between 5 and 7 in the evening in the middle of the week.
So, how do you approach a girl in a coffee shop? Let's say you see her sitting by herself. Start with a pre-opener. I'll always bring something like my laptop or a book, and I'll ask her, 'Hey, do you mind watching this for me real quick? I'm just going to the bathroom.'
Disappear for a minute or two, come back and ask her, 'Did anybody try to steal my stuff?' she'll either play along or she won't. If she says no, I'll say, 'But you would have totally beaten them up if they had, right?' Then, give her a high five and say, 'You're totally my new bodyguard.'
Once you start talking to her, you want to move her around as quickly as possible. Get her on an instant date. With coffee shops, it's really easy. You can just say it's too cold or too hot in there, then get her to go outside with you.
It's much tougher to do all of this when you're waiting or walking. The best way to do it is to either mill around and act like you're getting some sugar, or to sit down in the area where the traffic is and you've got two seats, and kick a seat out for her. While you do this, ask her an opinion opener.
The other two places where daytime pick-ups work best for me are gyms and shopping malls. These are both places where there are lots of women and it's easy to approach them. In all of these situations, they're stationary so it's less likely they'll be in a hurry. When you're approaching women during the day time, it's important to decide on a venue first and then work it, like I did with coffee shops. If you do that, you'll become an expert on that venue.
When is the best time to go to coffee shops? I started ranging it. In my experience, the best time is between 8 and 10 in the morning, and again between 5 and 7 in the evening in the middle of the week.
So, how do you approach a girl in a coffee shop? Let's say you see her sitting by herself. Start with a pre-opener. I'll always bring something like my laptop or a book, and I'll ask her, 'Hey, do you mind watching this for me real quick? I'm just going to the bathroom.'
Disappear for a minute or two, come back and ask her, 'Did anybody try to steal my stuff?' she'll either play along or she won't. If she says no, I'll say, 'But you would have totally beaten them up if they had, right?' Then, give her a high five and say, 'You're totally my new bodyguard.'
Once you start talking to her, you want to move her around as quickly as possible. Get her on an instant date. With coffee shops, it's really easy. You can just say it's too cold or too hot in there, then get her to go outside with you.
It's much tougher to do all of this when you're waiting or walking. The best way to do it is to either mill around and act like you're getting some sugar, or to sit down in the area where the traffic is and you've got two seats, and kick a seat out for her. While you do this, ask her an opinion opener.
The other two places where daytime pick-ups work best for me are gyms and shopping malls. These are both places where there are lots of women and it's easy to approach them. In all of these situations, they're stationary so it's less likely they'll be in a hurry. When you're approaching women during the day time, it's important to decide on a venue first and then work it, like I did with coffee shops. If you do that, you'll become an expert on that venue.
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