Are You Nervous For the First Date? Don"t Be, Because it Will Ruin Everything, Find Out Why
Whenever you act uncomfortable and nervous around a woman, she will instantly feel like you are trying to get her approval.
What is even worse is that she feels like you are desperately trying to impress her, which tells her there is something you want from her.
What happens then, is that you literally hand her the completely control over the entire situation, where she could say or act any way and literally control your responses and actions based on it.
In the end, you are trying so hard to prevent her disapproval, which you are more or less ruining any and all attraction that existed or could exist.
Read on to find out more about being nervous on the first date and what you can do about it..
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--Conversation trick- OK, one of the easiest and quickest ways to have a disastrous date, is to keep things "safe" by talking about those boring and usual things, such as her job, her life etc...
Yes, her life can be boring, especially if you are the one drilling her about it.
You basically want to avoid these subjects altogether, because they force you to feel uncomfortable, simply because they make you treat the date like an interview.
Thus, if you find her talking about the same things, all you have to say is "What's the deal here, is this some job interview?", and you will instantly have control over the conversation again.
--Talking can either make or break the night- How you talk, and what you talk about will either keep both of you nervous, or will leave both of you feeling great and enlightened.
Which would you rather? Obviously you want her to feel great, and you don't want to feel nervous.
So how do you accomplish this? Well simply, you add humor to the conversation! You can also tease her as well, about how she looks, what she just said, and what she is wearing.
This will show her that you are not like regular guys, and that you have standards, which she will instantly feel like meeting up to.
--Still don't know what to talk about?- So I haven't touched on what exactly you can talk about, and basically there is no limit, as long as you keep things fun.
But if you need some starters, there are a few topics which women are generally always interested in, but remember not to allow things to become boring or monotonous.
Anything related to history, the superficial, and psychological analysis of people will work, because each can get her engaged, and she will always have something to add to it.
What is even worse is that she feels like you are desperately trying to impress her, which tells her there is something you want from her.
What happens then, is that you literally hand her the completely control over the entire situation, where she could say or act any way and literally control your responses and actions based on it.
In the end, you are trying so hard to prevent her disapproval, which you are more or less ruining any and all attraction that existed or could exist.
Read on to find out more about being nervous on the first date and what you can do about it..
...
--Conversation trick- OK, one of the easiest and quickest ways to have a disastrous date, is to keep things "safe" by talking about those boring and usual things, such as her job, her life etc...
Yes, her life can be boring, especially if you are the one drilling her about it.
You basically want to avoid these subjects altogether, because they force you to feel uncomfortable, simply because they make you treat the date like an interview.
Thus, if you find her talking about the same things, all you have to say is "What's the deal here, is this some job interview?", and you will instantly have control over the conversation again.
--Talking can either make or break the night- How you talk, and what you talk about will either keep both of you nervous, or will leave both of you feeling great and enlightened.
Which would you rather? Obviously you want her to feel great, and you don't want to feel nervous.
So how do you accomplish this? Well simply, you add humor to the conversation! You can also tease her as well, about how she looks, what she just said, and what she is wearing.
This will show her that you are not like regular guys, and that you have standards, which she will instantly feel like meeting up to.
--Still don't know what to talk about?- So I haven't touched on what exactly you can talk about, and basically there is no limit, as long as you keep things fun.
But if you need some starters, there are a few topics which women are generally always interested in, but remember not to allow things to become boring or monotonous.
Anything related to history, the superficial, and psychological analysis of people will work, because each can get her engaged, and she will always have something to add to it.
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