Any relationship is not by chance. The highest human virtues such as understanding, patience, forgiveness, adaptability, truthfulness, caring, unconditional love and unity will give us experiences to grow and develop.

Do not keep in mind that there is only one soul mate for each person. We evolve in every lessons that we have learned through past and series of relationships. Try to avoid trap from a superficial short term relationship.

Relationships based on mutual respect, admiration and common interests should be created. Just take note that chemical attraction is very essential to make the relationship go on longer.

Be honest in filling out the details in your questionnaire about yourself and the souls with whom you would like to unite yourself with. Be clear about yourself and with what you want.

When you begin your first meetings with a soul with whom would like to investigate the possibility of mutually creating a Conscious Love Relationship: Be totally honest from the beginning. You want someone who wants to be with you -not with some mask that you create.

Ask questions that are important to you. Learn how the other thinks and feels about subjects that are important to you. See what you have in common and what you do not.

Do not move forward into sexual intimacy until you are fairly sure that you really can respect, admire and love this person. Physically intimacy without love can create unfruitful attachments.

Avoid creating a relationship with a person based on the idea that you will change the other. This seldom works. People do not like to be changed or controlled and usually rebel towards that effort on our part.

Investigate various aspects of your possible communication. Discuss and share whatever gives you meaning and pleasure. After some time, discuss your values and life style preferences. What do you believe is the purpose of life? Do you want to have children? How would you like to live? Do you want a social life? What do you want to do with your life?

Remember, relationships are not the goal of life but rather the means towards our life purpose which is growth, self-knowledge and eventual manifestation of our inherent divine qualities such as unconditional love. Relationships do not give us self-worth and we do not lose our self-worth when someone prefers not to be with us or prefers to be someone else.

Avoid falling into the following mental traps: Believing that you are getting too old and that you have lost the train or are less worthy or less happy than those who are married or in relationships. Remember that a few years of a real Conscious Love Relationship is preferable to fifty years of a relationship based on security and self-worth needs.

Place your energy a thought form into the universe by: a. Knowing what you want - as specifically as possible. A relationship necessarily involves two people. That can either lead to great understanding or to pain.