Have you recently found yourself on the wrong end of a break up?  Now you are asking yourself, "What can I do to get my ex girlfriend back"? Maybe you feel like you have tried everything - phone calls, flowers, apologies...
but nothing seems to make a difference.
  Maybe you are thinking about everything that could have been done differently.
  If none of this is getting you anywhere read on for some more effective strategies.
The first thing to do is stop playing the "what if" game.
  Constantly asking yourself "what if I had done things differently" won't change the past or help you get your relationship back on track.
  You need to focus on the future can what you can do now.
So what can you do to get your ex girlfriend back?  Well since focusing all your energy on rekindling your relationship hasn't work maybe you need to start by taking a break.
  Take a step back from your efforts to win back your love and take some time to focus on yourself and other interests you have.
  Go out with your buddies, make new friends, have fun, network, try a new hobby and forget about women in general for a little while.
   Give yourself a month or two to make some changes in your life.
  Taking some time away from your ex can make all the difference.
  It will help you to gain a much better perspective not only on yourself but also on your ex and the break up.
After a little time and distance has passed since the break up you will be in a much better place to decide if you still even want to get back together with your ex-girlfriend or are you ready to move on.
  If you want to move on then you are well on your way because you are getting out and doing things with other people.
  And if you decide you want your ex back you will be in a much better place to start working on that.
So if it has been a month or two and you have given the break up some distance but you still want the relationship back then what?  Well take it slow and play it cool.
  No begging your girl to take you back.
  You have set yourself up really well by giving her some space the past month or two.
  Playing a little hard to get can work to your advantage.
  Hopefully the space and time apart has given your ex a chance to miss you, now you can use that to your advantage.
   Plus she will have been able to see you out having fun and living your life which will only make her more interested in you.
    You will be well on your way to getting back together with your ex-girlfriend - the key is not trying too hard.