Some people are currently dealing with marital issues.
Some are on the verge of divorce.
No matter where you are at, you can be the person who is committed to save your marriage.
If you look, things just did not turn out one day to be this way.
And granted that you may not like the current circumstances that things are in, you can be the one who save your marriage.
You might currently not be on talking terms with each other.
This is because every time you talk, it turns into a fight or an argument.
Maybe it's time you stop getting your buttons pushed and start listening? Often it seems that what your partner is saying is blaming you.
This may not be the case.
Many times your partner is just venting out their anger at some expectations that they have that did not get fulfilled but you could take this to mean something personal about yourself.
If you could allow them the space to say whatever they needed to say to let go of their anger or resentment, they would naturally return to their true self.
Sometimes when you allow this process to take place, your partner might be even be grateful for the space you provided.
By responding to your partner this way, you allow for communication to come back into your relationship.
Communication is vital in every relationship.
Another thing you could do to help save your marriage is to let go.
Why there is so much heaviness in your space is because you have been carrying around grudges and resentment toward your spouse.
Why you collect grudges is because you think you can use it to blame your spouse back for something when you spouse is blaming you for something.
Tit-for-tat.
Imagine walking around dragging a table with you all the time.
That's how heavy it feels.
Without letting go, it's like you are trying to fill a glass that's already full.
It will spill over.
You cannot then renew your relationship.
And letting go does not mean you are the weaker or losing side, or that you are being taken advantage of.
It means you free yourself from the clutches of the past and forgive your partner for any mistake he or she might have done to you.
Letting go also gives you personal benefits.
You would let go of your stress and anxiety which would lead to better physical health and well-being.
When you let go, you allow for the relationship to be renewed.
Just by applying these two simple ideas, you can start to save your marriage right now and bring love back into your relationship.
And off-course it will take effort and some commitment on your part to bring back the relationship to where it once was and its well worth it.
Its like you start exercising again.
In the beginning it seems tiring and difficult, but after sometime it becomes fun and engaging and you start to enjoy it.
Good luck!