How to Attract Women to You
- 1). Forget systems. To attract women, don't think about it in terms of how to trick women into being interested in you. The systems that are being taught in ebooks and specialty websites are all about how to briefly trick women into being attracted to you until they come to know the real you. If that's all you want, then go for it. If you really want to attract women who will stick around and be interested in being with you long term, forget all of that tripe.
- 2). Be sincere. This doesn't mean being completely honest- few women actually want that. Yes, we know we look fat in those pants but we want to hear that we don't. Instead, simply use sincerity when you approach women. If you are interested in a woman because she has a great style or similar interests to your own, mention it to her.
Sincerity is extremely attractive and will make up for a lot of shortcomings. To stay sincere, never use pickup lines. Communicate with a woman respectfully and without insulting her intelligence. - 3). Stay well groomed. You can often attract women simply by being well groomed and taking some care in your appearance without being vain. Don't spend an hour on your hair, but don't go out without brushing it. Find a happy medium and women will be attracted by the pride you take in your appearance.
- 4). Treat women like people. Some men treat women like either an animal they want to hunt or something fairly dangerous that may bite them at any moment. When talking to women, talk to them as you would male friend that you admire. If it helps, picture that person and think of what you might say to that friend before speaking to a woman you want to attract. This will help you to avoid being patronizing or inappropriate.
- 5). Attract women with your passions. Engage in your interests, have fun with your hobbies and go about your business. There is nothing less attractive than a man who has nothing in his life than trying to meet women. Remember Night at the Roxbury? Not attractive. When you have passion and focus in your life, you will attract women who have similar interests and goals.
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