Personality

• You have to know yourself before you can share who you are with someone else. Having a good grasp of who you are and what you want and looking for that in a mate is the first step to a great dating experience. This means finding someone with like interests. Socialize in circles that reflect your interests by joining clubs or societies or sports that reflect you. If you enjoy golfing, join a golf club. If you are an avid reader, find a local book club to participate in. If you love to dance, try dance classes, or frequent hot spots that feature dancing.
  
  

Confidence

• In order to be successful at dating, you must have confidence in yourself. Do what you need to do to bring that out in yourself, from making over your wardrobe to joining a gym. Even exploring your creative side through a new hobby or passion can go a long way in boosting self-confidence and self-esteem, and this will shine through to your partner when dating.
  
  

Where to Look

• In addition to activities that reflect your interests, decide how you want to go about meeting Mr. or Ms. Right. While some people are satisfied by surrounding themselves with people who share their interests and hoping to bump into that special someone, others may require a more proactive approach. Consider dating services, both online and off. Speed dating is another interesting option for those openly searching for a romantic partner. There are also personal ads to be answered or placed. Always proceed with caution, and make the first meeting with a stranger a public one for everyone's safety.
  
  

Have Fun

• Above all, dating should be fun. Be sure you are relaxed, and choose dates with people and in places that make you comfortable. Stressing during a date is never attractive. During slumps or following rejections, allow yourself downtime to regroup to help keep you positive about the whole process.