If you want to know some of the most common first date mistakes, and how to avoid them, then read this article very carefully.
In the next few minutes I'm going to share some advice that will help you transform your first date into a great experience, and increase your chances of having a second one.
Avoid the job interview dynamic Many guys let their first date transform into a job interview, and there are several problems with this approach.
First, it's boring, and nothing kills the attraction faster than boredom.
Second, when we handle our first encounter as a job interview we are qualifying ourselves to women, and this decreases our value.
Most guys are very concerned about how to sustain a conversation.
Not knowing what to say makes them anxious, and this affects their body language negatively.
By avoiding the job interview dynamic you will eliminate a lot of the stress associated with first dates, and this will increase your sex appeal.
Finally, a common mistake is sharing too much information on the first date.
Women are attracted to guys they are curious about.
Don't act as if you are hiding something, but also don't give it all away on your first encounter.
How do you eliminate the job interview dynamic? Avoid situations that force you to talk about each other, like going for a coffee, or to a restaurant.
Instead, try to find an activity that will give you a non-personal topic to talk about, like bowling, a museum, etc.
You can go to take that coffee, and share personal stuff, on your second date, once she is attracted to you.
Create sexual tension This point is related to the previous one.
If you want to make a girl feel attracted to you stop talking, you are not going to win her heart through her brain, and start using your body language to create sexual tension.
Remember, no sexual tension, no second date.
How do you create sexual tension? First relax.
If you are anxious your body language will send all the wrong signals.
If you feel nervous, tense your body as hard as you can and then release, this technique will help you relax very fast.
Also, try to breathe slowly.
Then, touch her in subtle ways.
Touching will help you create sexual tension, and make her feel comfortable around you.
Finally, look her straight into her eyes.
This will produce some chemical and physical reactions on her body that will make her believe that she is already attracted to you.
Everything in the seduction arena is about rhythm.
Pace yourself, move slowly and in a sensual way.
Try to internalize the feelings of the traits you want to display.
Before you leave your house stand in front of the mirror and use positive affirmations to feel like a sensual male.
This will make your body language send the right signals.
The most common mistake on first dates is appealing to female's brain.
Guys try to sell themselves to females, through words.
This will send you, in the best-case scenario, to the friend zone.
And of curse, your second date chances will disappear.
Unless you induce the right type of feelings on women, like sexual tension, they will not feel attracted to you.