So, your girlfriend broke up with you and you want to find out how to get back your ex.
That means you probably really care for her a lot - that's a good start.
But most dudes try to accomplish this by begging her and telling her how sorry they are.
That's very weak and pathetic.
The trick is to show her that you still care for her, without directly telling her.
She broke up with you and if you care for her, show some respect to her feelings.
After a break up both sides are very confused and emotional.
Give her some time to sort out her feelings or you will destroy your relationship even further.
So, how do you show her that you care for her and respect her decision? Well, it's actually pretty simple: Go on with your life.
Don't become a pathetic whiner that locks himself up for days and tells everybody how unfair the world is.
Go out with your friends, maybe even start to see other women again.
This will signal her that you are accept her decision and don't hurt her feelings even further by clinging to her.
And you know what? She will be jealous when she sees you with those other birds and she will start to compare.
Ain't that good? You even get to have some fun on your mission to get back with your ex.
Next step is to get some new stuff.
Get rid off all the junk that remembers you of the time you spent together.
Don't trash it right away, but get it out of your sight.
Trust me, I have been through a few break ups and this alone makes things a lot easier.
Start a new chapter in your life, from a blank slate.
But, not only will this help you get over her, she will recognize it and you will be instantly interesting to her again.
A new hairstyle, some new clothes and maybe a new hobby or places to hang out.