Breakups and divorces can happen for a variety of reasons.
The list is endless and it would take the work of an enthusiast to attempt publishing this list.
We can however look at core reasons.
Again yes, there are many so for the purpose of this text let us settle in an area detailing the problems why couples drift apart due to external influences.
When a steady relationship starts drifting off course we must analyze the way we behave and the advice that we are paying heed to.
It is not uncommon for a person in a relationship to be convinced they are with the wrong partner.
This can occur if one of the parents is not fond of the idea that you are together.
Maybe a friend can try to stir things up a little and create unnecessary trouble.
Sometimes all it takes is a wrong accusation or a fable and it can send the stability crashing out of a relationship.
This is even more so the case when the person making the claims is considered a very close companion or they are family.
Once the relationship fails due to this happening it can prove very difficult to win over the trust of your ex again and you may probably feel in competition with the third parties involved.
Consider these points listed below to assist you getting back on track.
1) Stop listening to other people! When the opportunity arises to contact your ex (sooner rather than later), tell them what has been happening.
Be honest and upfront and make it clear to them that third parties were involved.
Sometimes it is very easy to take a back seat after a breakup like this.
We know this can evolve into dragging family and friends names into the equation.
Couples have separated permanently because of the fear of other people having their input and witnessing their deliberate plan to destroy their relationship.
2) Breaking up because of third parties is a terrible situation to be in.
If you have broken up due to this reason then make contacting your ex your first priority.
You need to make sure you limit the damage by letting them know exactly what is happening.
Avoid sitting and waiting in this instance as time is of the essence.
The more time you sit and wait will hand more time to the third parties to solidify their point.
If you want to win back your love and trust it is important the truth comes out.
3) So, what if these family members and friends are right? What if you have done something wrong and you have lost the trust of friends and family? In their eyes maybe they are exactly right to attempt stopping you seeing someone they care for.
If this is the case you need to stand strong and bring it out in the open.
It is always best to admit what you have done rather than people finding out through other sources.
If you have had an affair, admit it, if you have lied to your partner, tell them.
Yes, the reaction will probably be not what you want but it is better it comes from you.
If you want to get your ex back and you are suffering in the areas mentioned above it is important you are totally honest.
People have made serious mistakes in relationships to the extent they can be considered unforgivable.
Being honest can prove to be the make or break of your future together.
If you want to win your ex back, get your facts straight and tell them the truth as soon as is practical.