How to Make Your Texting Sexy Without Seeming Creepy
'That's just weird' does not want to be the reaction felt by your partner when she opens your text.
Being 'sexy' means putting some spice and color to your textual relationship and not being outright crude.
Men and women work in different ways when it comes to reading texts.
When a man reads a text he reads literally and has a more practical head on.
However, when a woman reads a text from her partner she reads between the lines for clues and nuances of romantic/saucy titbits.
The next time you send a text to your partner imagine you are whispering in her ear, that you are in public and only want her to hear.
Keep the message brief and use 'I's' and 'You's' in your language.
I miss you and it hurts, do you have a cure? I want you so much that it hurts.
I found a kiss in my pocket today, it must belong to you x I love you I heart you I was thinking about you today, did you sense it? I have neglected you recently, please accept this voucher for 1 massage Do you get the idea.
All too often I see guys text what looks like a shopping list full of questions and boring detail.
Never, let me say that again NEVER ask questions in your text (unless you really need an answer there and then) Asking questions via text gives away your energy and puts you in the realm of FRIENDS.
You are not her friend in the true sense of the word, you are her partner, lover, confidante and soul mate.
Don't forget that.
Sometimes a simple kiss x and nothing else says more than a long list of what's been going on in your world.
After all it says that you are thinking about her in that moment even though you are busy with your day.
Buildings could be falling around you, traffic could be tailed back ten miles and your engine is about the boil - and still you are thinking about her.
Another smart move is to reflect on something you both did or enjoyed.
Again only hint at it and let her fill in the gaps.
The wine almost tasted as lovely as you last night (cheeky smile) You put something in my coffee this morning for sure, my head is still spinning and I'm having palpitations (smile) Text is an amazing way to foreplay.
Or should I say more play.
Text allows you to connect emotionally even when you aren't together.
But be warned, it can also disconnect you emotionally if you fall into the trap of being boring and practical.
When you text her she reads your words in her own voice.
She doesn't read them and import your voice-over.
So keep text brief and subtle and only make statements and NEVER ask questions.
Being 'sexy' means putting some spice and color to your textual relationship and not being outright crude.
Men and women work in different ways when it comes to reading texts.
When a man reads a text he reads literally and has a more practical head on.
However, when a woman reads a text from her partner she reads between the lines for clues and nuances of romantic/saucy titbits.
The next time you send a text to your partner imagine you are whispering in her ear, that you are in public and only want her to hear.
Keep the message brief and use 'I's' and 'You's' in your language.
I miss you and it hurts, do you have a cure? I want you so much that it hurts.
I found a kiss in my pocket today, it must belong to you x I love you I heart you I was thinking about you today, did you sense it? I have neglected you recently, please accept this voucher for 1 massage Do you get the idea.
All too often I see guys text what looks like a shopping list full of questions and boring detail.
Never, let me say that again NEVER ask questions in your text (unless you really need an answer there and then) Asking questions via text gives away your energy and puts you in the realm of FRIENDS.
You are not her friend in the true sense of the word, you are her partner, lover, confidante and soul mate.
Don't forget that.
Sometimes a simple kiss x and nothing else says more than a long list of what's been going on in your world.
After all it says that you are thinking about her in that moment even though you are busy with your day.
Buildings could be falling around you, traffic could be tailed back ten miles and your engine is about the boil - and still you are thinking about her.
Another smart move is to reflect on something you both did or enjoyed.
Again only hint at it and let her fill in the gaps.
The wine almost tasted as lovely as you last night (cheeky smile) You put something in my coffee this morning for sure, my head is still spinning and I'm having palpitations (smile) Text is an amazing way to foreplay.
Or should I say more play.
Text allows you to connect emotionally even when you aren't together.
But be warned, it can also disconnect you emotionally if you fall into the trap of being boring and practical.
When you text her she reads your words in her own voice.
She doesn't read them and import your voice-over.
So keep text brief and subtle and only make statements and NEVER ask questions.
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