How can you be sure whether your partner is cheating on you? What are the signals that show he's being untrue? How can you know that he is texting a new woman and not his soccer buddy? They say women's intuition is one of the key methods to confirm if a man is cheating, but sometimes intuition still fails us.
There really need to be some obvious signals, some blatant circumstances, some definite events that will help you work out the true situation and help you conclude whether your guy is a being unfaithful.
False suspicions can lead to accusations and can result in terrible arguments and break-ups.
So what you should really do is be observant and watch out carefully for particular signals.
Although there are no definite rules in observing a guy's behavior and working out if he is being unfaithful or not, there are quite a few particular signals in a relationship that will let you know that your man s cheating.
Secretive behavior One of the signals that your man is cheating is when he suddenly gets protective of his privacy - he adds a pass code to his cell phone or his pc, he deletes the computer and mobile phone history, and he doesn't write down any of his passwords.
He makes it almost an impossibility for you to find out about his life in the cyber world.
He answers the phone outside your range of hearing, perhaps taking his mobile phone with him to the bathroom.
Changes to his schedule Did he all of a sudden cancel your movie date as he must work overtime or he needs to take his cat to the vet? Or maybe his father who he almost never sees has arrived in town and they have to go out for dinner? Another indicator that your man is cheating is when his schedule alters all the time and when you ask him about it, he gives you excuses that don't exactly ease your worries.
Being distant Now that he has a new girl, his time with you will decrease.
There's more time for the new woman, and much less time for you.
He can't give up work so he has cheating time, can he? So when he cancels your movie dates, be aware of the fact that you are not spending quality time as much as you used to.
And on the few occasions do go out, he seems distant, or in a rush to get things over and done with.
Why? Because he's itching to finish your date so he can escape to his other woman.
Inconsistency Keep on the ball and look out for any inconsistencies in his stories.
When you ask him who he was speaking to on the phone, he may hesitate to find an answer and explanation may not make sense.
Inconsistent excuses is one clue that your partner is cheating on you.
Intuition They say women's intuition is is the best way to confirm suspicions.
If you believe that there's something not right, that there might be another woman, then take a moment to listen to what your gut is telling you.
But don't be too hasty to make accusations or be confronting.
Look for changes in behavior and make conclusions on firm evidence.
If you make an accusation of cheating and it ends up that he's not cheating, then you could bring about the end of a good relationship.
Remember not to make accusations when you're angry or overwhelmed by emotion.
Accusing your partner of being unfaithful is severe and could spell the end of your relationship.
Keep calm and focused - think before you speak or act.