Feel like if you have to do another dinner and a movie date you may just scream? If your current dating situation feels like it's constantly on re-play, it's time to mix it up a bit more.
Couples who take in new activities on a regular basis are more likely to form a stronger bond and increase their overall satisfaction from the relationship. While having your normal routine is great and allows the comfort-factor to build, don't be afraid to break away from the norm.
The following four ideas will help you do just that.
Do A New Activity
One of the best ways to liven up a date is to try a new activity that neither of you have done before. Whether it's rock climbing, drag cart racing, or simply visiting a new local restaurant that neither of you have been to before, the change of scenery can provide a great conversation starter and since it's a new experience, it can also help to take some of the nerves off if it's during the initial dating stages. You'll have other things to focus on than just how your potential date may be viewing you.
Take A Class
Another great idea for a more enjoyable date is to consider taking a class of sorts. Whether it's a new language, a cooking class, or some form of art class both of you are interested in (if you're the artsy type), this can make for a very unique experience both of you enjoy.
Search around in your city and see what types of classes are offered. Typically universities will offer reduced rates if budget is a concern.
Get Your Heart Rate Up
Want a fast and easy way to increase the chemistry during your early dating outings? Get your heart rate up. Those who do exciting and slightly scary things on their dates tend to experience a stronger chemical reaction to the other person than those who don't.
With your adrenaline pumping through your system and that excited feel about, you will find that your date seems more appealing.
Of course this has to be within reason - especially if it's a first date. Don't send your date running for fear of what a second date may bring. Ensure both people are comfortable doing the activity first.
This date is also a great idea for long-term partners who want to rekindle the passion they once had.
Visit A Book Store
Finally, the last idea for a date that will provide a nice change of pace is to visit a local bookstore. You can have your coffee there as well if you prefer and will have plenty of books available that will make great conversation starters for first dates.
Or if you've been dating a while, visit the travel section for example and dream about what elaborate vacations you'd love to take.
So there you have some unique ideas to change things up on your dates and help you connect better with your partner.