How to Flirt on a Date
Have you ever wondered how to flirt? There is a science to flirting, but it can be learned.
Successful flirting is all about having fun, exerting confidence, playfulness, and attractiveness.
People that are not successful at flirting are being to "out-there," too sexual, too in to themselves, and too desperate/eager to flirt with anyone that walks by.
Lets begin with a basic common sense rule: when you are on a date, flirt with your date, not your friends, waitress, bar tender, hostess or anyone else that you may find attractive.
It is rude and inconsiderate.
That being said lets look at a few basic tips on how to flirt with style: 1)Be interested in your date and actually listen to what they have to say.
People that are not listening are not interested in what you have to say, do you want your date to feel this way? Few things are sexier than someone that is totally into you and paying attention to what you have to say.
2)When you are speaking with someone actually look into his or her eyes.
I am not telling you to stare; I am just saying that you need to look into their eyes.
There is a connection between people when they do this.
Also people that normally have trouble looking into someone's eyes are generally mistrusted.
3)Be playful.
Dating and flirting is fun, you should be fun! Don't be a stick in the mud, be playful.
4)Touching is also important.
I am not telling you to bear hug your date, I am just telling you to lightly touch in a playful way; brush arms, bump knees beneath the table, or lightly touch their back.
5)Give compliments.
Everyone loves a nice genuine compliment.
Why not use the tool of flattery on your date? It is a nice and easy way to make someone feel good about themselves.
6)Most importantly, take a chance and just do it.
Flirting is an active sport.
You cannot just wait for someone to walk up to you and start flirting.
If you do this you will be waiting for a long time.
What you need to do is just takes a stab at it.
What do you think is the worst thing that could happen? I will tell you, you could get your feelings hurt and have egg on your face.
So what.
Look at the other side of the coin, you could actually have a great time with someone and this could actually grow into more.
You have nothing to lose.
Successful flirting is all about having fun, exerting confidence, playfulness, and attractiveness.
People that are not successful at flirting are being to "out-there," too sexual, too in to themselves, and too desperate/eager to flirt with anyone that walks by.
Lets begin with a basic common sense rule: when you are on a date, flirt with your date, not your friends, waitress, bar tender, hostess or anyone else that you may find attractive.
It is rude and inconsiderate.
That being said lets look at a few basic tips on how to flirt with style: 1)Be interested in your date and actually listen to what they have to say.
People that are not listening are not interested in what you have to say, do you want your date to feel this way? Few things are sexier than someone that is totally into you and paying attention to what you have to say.
2)When you are speaking with someone actually look into his or her eyes.
I am not telling you to stare; I am just saying that you need to look into their eyes.
There is a connection between people when they do this.
Also people that normally have trouble looking into someone's eyes are generally mistrusted.
3)Be playful.
Dating and flirting is fun, you should be fun! Don't be a stick in the mud, be playful.
4)Touching is also important.
I am not telling you to bear hug your date, I am just telling you to lightly touch in a playful way; brush arms, bump knees beneath the table, or lightly touch their back.
5)Give compliments.
Everyone loves a nice genuine compliment.
Why not use the tool of flattery on your date? It is a nice and easy way to make someone feel good about themselves.
6)Most importantly, take a chance and just do it.
Flirting is an active sport.
You cannot just wait for someone to walk up to you and start flirting.
If you do this you will be waiting for a long time.
What you need to do is just takes a stab at it.
What do you think is the worst thing that could happen? I will tell you, you could get your feelings hurt and have egg on your face.
So what.
Look at the other side of the coin, you could actually have a great time with someone and this could actually grow into more.
You have nothing to lose.
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