Flirting is an easy choice for those who do not wish to enter into the complications of a committed relationship and for those who believe in a no strings attached relationships. Speeddating is fun and a jovial way to interact with someone belonging to the opposite gender but one thing which should be kept in mind is that the person with whom you are flirting should not get offended by this act or let us put it in another words that flirting is healthy only if both the parties are involved in it by mutual consent. One should also ensure that during the initial days of flirting, one should never talk or make any kind of physical advances unless and until the person on the opposite side is encouraging because this can put behind the bars so flirting though a fun activity should be done in a very sober manner. This brings us to the very question that what is flirting after all to which the answer could be that speed dating is a playful overture which exists in some or the other way in all parts of the world, the western as well as the eastern.

Though not always but many a times it has happened that what begins as a playful flirting blooms into a beautiful relationship and culminates into marriage which does make us think that yes flirting can be one of the ways to find one's soul mate. The best part about flirting is that when we flirt in a healthy manner, we get to know the person better as we talk about our choices in music, literature, art, lifestyle and innumerable mundane things which help us in sharing a special bond with the person. The decision that whether this special bond should be followed by something more concrete or should be a casual one is something that makes all the difference as it is one thing to flirt, to love is all together a different ballgame. The most important aspect of flirting is that if even if you don't choose to do it consciously, your very interaction with opposite sex helps you in framing an idea of qualities which you would like to have in your partner.