Finding an Engraver

• Gift stores sometimes offer engraving services; however, they may not have the most competent engravers. A good engraver asks you questions about the gift you've chosen for your boyfriend, then shows you previous work samples. Look for clean lettering and lines in those samples so you can hire a professional confidently.
  
  

Accessorize Him

• One option for your boyfriend are items that round out his wardrobe. For example, if your boyfriend is a professional, look into a briefcase with a metal buckle. Engrave the buckle with his initials. The result is a dashing addition to the daily office outfit, and is ideal for corporate settings and beyond. Alternatively, get him an engraved watch with the month, day and year when you first met on the back. High-quality pen sets also make excellent engraved gifts.
  
  For less formal ware, how about engraved dog tags? These offer a little more space on which to put your message. They look sharp with a set of khakis or camouflage style pants. While you're at it, get yourself a matching set.
  
  

Keep it Portable

• If your boyfriend commutes to work or is heading off to college, look into something portable. Look at travel mugs as one option. Put an uplifting saying suited to the diverse environments in which he travels. Other ideas include a monogrammed money clip, an eBook reader with an engraved cover or an iPod with etching in the metal surface.
  
  

Relaxation and Recreation

• For the man who enjoys a good cigar with a glass of wine, metal cigar cases make a good engraving surface, as do glass bottles. Personalize the bottles for the two of you and enjoy them together. Additionally, add in some engraved coasters to keep the living room table safe from water marks.
  
  For the sports enthusiast, you can get engraved golf balls or a sport watch. If your boyfriend loves barbecue, get a set of personalized grill tools, complete with a chef's apron.
  
  

Gathering Ideas and Hints

• When you know a special occasion is coming up, carry a small notebook with you. When your boyfriend mentions something he likes or pays particular attention to an item at a store, discreetly make a note of it. Settle on the gift that reflects your relationship and the reason for the celebration.