It's been a hundred and four years since Sigmund Freud started the debate on female orgasm.
The debate refuses to conclude and men should shoulder the responsibility for this.
Women have been faking orgasm since time immemorial.
And yet men get conned and believe that their gal had a gala time in bed.
So, how do you know if she faked an orgasm? Here are four ways to find out.
If your girl wastes no time in getting dressed after the act then she has faked her orgasm.
Women need time to get their bearings right before they can do any thing like that.
This is simple biology at work.
During the orgasm the blood rushes from the lower and upper extremities to the genitals of a woman and hence she feels weak after a genuine orgasm.
Another easy way to find out if she faked an orgasm is if there is a discernible mind body disconnect.
If the woman you are having sex with has her mind preoccupied with other thoughts then she is unlikely to have an orgasm.
Even if she moans and grunts, she is faking it.
She may be thinking of fixing the plumbing in the bathroom or she may be planning your child's school project.
After an orgasm the clitoris becomes hard and erect.
The vaginal lips swell due to increased blood circulation and they may also appear darker.
Nipples become erect and the breasts are sensitive to touch.
If all this is missing then she probably faked her orgasm.
If after sex your woman breathes normally and there is no shade of pink on her breasts, neck or cheeks or her vagina looks normal and is not throbbing every few seconds then too she has faked her orgasm.
If you notice all these signs then talk to your woman openly and try and understand the underlying causes, address them and you will have a partner for life.