A common trend with a Christian marriage relationship on the rocks is the lack of sextaking place.
Unfortunately it is the tendency for Christians to get overly caught up with sex, in a negative manner which often involves becoming overwhelmed with issues regarding sex and religion.
What should be allowed, how often and even the question of whether having sex is a good, religious thing are all issues that often arise.
This can easily turn overwhelming, to the point where simply not having sex altogether seems to be the easiest solution.
But not having sex leads to a very negative change in your relationship.
And the next thing you realize, is that your Christian marriage relationship is severely on the rocks and in trouble.
So is the answer to just start having sex again? Not exactly.
Your Christian marriage relationship should be based around an understanding that first and foremost, sex is NOT a bad thing! It's a highly positive and extremely important aspect to a Christian union.
Next you need to start uncovering any questions you have about Christian sex.
Don't make this more difficult than it needs to be.
Get a good Christian intimacy guide and answer all your questions in a day or two, and be done with it.
Eliminate all the roadblocks you have in regards to sex.
Understand sex is good, it is meant to be pleasurable, and it should be practiced often! Now, start having sex! Seriously, the sooner you become physically close with one another once again with your new understandings of sex, then the quicker your relationship will be healed properly.
When you strengthen your relationship physically you will end up strengthening your relationship spiritually as well.
Sometimes it takes physical closeness and that loving touch to awaken the spirit and remind it how powerful and spiritual lovemaking truly is.