Tips For Shy Guys - Get Over the First Hurdle and You"re in the Race

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Unfortunately for most shy guys, they just don't realise how fascinating most women actually find them.
In this small article I will give you some killer tips for shy guys that will enable you to approach any woman you like, and what's more, enjoy the experience.
Have I got your interest? Good, then read on..
For a shy guy, one of the most frightening prospects is striking up a conversation with a woman.
You have to realise that its your shyness that's causing this inaction.
Unfortunately, its a vicious circle, for this anxiety breeds more fear which in turn makes the situation worse.
Being a shy guy, its easy to arrive at this state of mind simply because your self interests are at stake.
We naturally become very self centered and introverted when we find ourselves in such a stressful situation.
Every small personality flaw gets amplified in your mind, and you begin to panic.
A paralysing fear soon descends as you become very self conscious and you just want to hide away.
Having understood what causes this fear and inaction its actually quite simple to solve the problem.
Learning to remove your own self-interests from the situation is one of the quickest ways to success.
Many guys just pile straight in with the intention of getting a date or phone number from the girl, well my advice is don't go in with this attitude.
Instead, approach them with no hidden agenda, especially any thoughts of a sexual nature.
This way, you will be under less pressure to perform, and with no great desire to impress her you will instead focus on enjoying the situation and more importantly her company.
This will make it far easier to chat and be more natural together.
The best thing about this easy approach is that you don't find yourself zeroing in on any one girl.
This enables you to talk to everyone in the group and get all of their attention.
Of course, this makes you appear relaxed, confident and a social success who has no hidden agenda other than to enjoy themselves in polite company.
This might seem a simple tip to put into operation but, being a shy guy, you will know that none of this stuff comes naturally, so you have do like everyone else and practice some techniques until you are comfortable with them.
Make the most of every opportunity that presents itself to you until you become confident no matter what the circumstances or whom you are approaching.
I have gathered hundreds of these tips for shy guys over the years and now I can let you have them all.
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