If your man breaks up with you, there's no reason to celebrate.
You instantly get to feel bad and really not yourself.
Life may seem to have lost its meaning and then you start thinking of ways to get him back.
That is not easy but it isn't impossible either.
Yet, it is much easier to start making things work while you are still in a relationship rather than finding ways to mend your problems after a breakup occurs.
Anyway, if you think thoroughly and get to the conclusion that bringing the man back is really what you want and need, there are ways of doing that no matter the reason why he decided to go.
Once you have found that the only way to regain your happiness is making up, you are entitled to try.
To be honest, in some cases a woman's attempts to get her man back work perfectly while in others she finds it impossible to get close to her ex again.
When you begin the journey you must take both aspects into consideration and start with a positive attitude.
If you are unlucky, at least you know you have tried your best.
The first thing to do is check your emotions and make sure you are in control.
No guy wants an emotional mess around.
When a guy goes away he may sooner or later regret doing so and start thinking of his sweetheart if not deeply missing her, but if she keeps calling and stalking the man she will definitely make him disappear for good.
Guys need space, no matter who they are.
It's their nature.
So, the proper thing to do in this situation is to wait for his moves while starting a new life.
Be mature and go on with your daily routine instead of whining and feeling down and out.
There is still a chance if you do not force fate.
You must have some friends to spend your time with; you don't really need him to keep you company.
So, do not call or send emails; better wait for the two of you to bump into each other in the street.
Eventually there will be some occasion for him to make a call.
That is the perfect moment to prove how nice and understanding you can be.
Instead of being mushy, you can act like a real friend who has never been romantically involved with him.
Keep the conversation to the trifle level and make him wonder what has made you so in control.
Also, keep things brief, whether you talk on the phone or in the street.
This will confuse him for sure and make you feel in control.
You may give him a quick hug if you want, but nothing more.
If you keep your head cool, after a couple of such encounters, you will find it very easy to get him closer to you.
Just do not rush; let time solve the problem for you.
The key to making up stands in the amount of self-control you can prove after a breakup.
If you go on with your life as if nothing had happened and make sure you always look hot, he will eventually notice what a desirable girl you are.
From then on, he will probably start working for your affection again.