How to Pick Up Girls at the Bar - Alice in Wonderland Can Improve Your Abilities With Women
In the movie, Alice has forgotten who she once was.
This relates to you on this level.
As a baby you were social, confident and asked for what you want.
Through the year of social conditioning and life experiences we have forgot our true nature.
Part of what I teach is how to reconnect with that true nature of who you are.
In wonderland, the impossible is possible.
This is reality.
Every one has their own version of what they think reality is.
Some don't realize that they hold the keys and the power to reshape their reality to what they desire.
Sometimes it takes just a shift in perspective.
Sometimes it takes going up against personal beliefs and smashing them through life experience.
We have all done this at different stages of our lives.
The story is her journey to regaining her power and becoming the Alice she needs to be to succeed.
This is your journey.
It is about the same thing.
Some behaviors may need to be unlearned, new mindsets adopted, a fresh perspective on things and taking action is what will be needed to transform you into a more naturally attractive male.
This is vital! The reason for this is to get the root of the issues you are having with women.
Clear those out and picking up women or getting girlfriends becomes effortless.
The Jabberwocky is your demons and fears.
This needs to be faced with courage and strength.
Without overcoming these demons and fears I'm sad to say that you will keep repeating the same patterns in similar situations.
Too many people don't face that last part and in a sense become their own self saboteur when it comes to becoming a better version of them, a more attractive version.
When it comes down to decisions or destiny, only you have the power to choose whether to take the wheel of the ship and steer it the course you desire or let life wisk you around in random directions like a leaf in the wind.
I read a quote once that sums this up perfectly: "Those who make decisions and have concrete goals are masters of their fate.
Those that don't are servants of their fate" -Unknown The choice in that is yours.
You just have to make it.
Sure it's easier to blame others and make excuses, it protects our egos, but in the wondrous world that is life it ends up becoming a block.
It blocks us from choosing to change our situations and go for what we want and not what others want for us.
Take an honest look at your life.
Pull out 3 pieces of paper On one side of the first, write down EVERYTHING that you are grateful for.
On the other side write down EVERYTHING you want out of life.
What's important to you, what you stand for, how you want to live and your goals? Fold this up, put it in your wallet and carry it with you.
This is important because if you don't know what you want how can you even get it On the second piece of paper, on one side write down what brings you joy, do more of that.
On the other side, write down want takes joy away from you, do less of that.
On the third piece of paper, choose and write down some boundaries of the things you are willing to do and allow into your life.
On the other side, write down what you are not willing to stand for in your life.
Systematically weed out those things you do and people you deal with that don't fall into the pile of "This is what I stand for and will put up with".
Trust me it'll make you happier.
Did you do the exercise? If not, DO IT.
What you have done by completing this exercise is define how you are going to live- a code of how YOU WILL YOUR LIFE.
By doing this, this will make you more attractive with women.