Seduce Your Wife Using A Lesson I Learned From My Nympho Friend
One thing that amazes me is the number of couples who are having great sex year after year.
It's like the honeymoon never ended.
If you ever ask them what their secret is, they'll find it difficult to explain.
The truth is they don't know.
That would be like a drug addict asking a yoga instructor how she manages to avoid doing heroine three times a day.
From her perspective, it's not a struggle.
A similar thing takes place when a sexually frustrated guy tries to figure out the secrets of couples who have great sex.
The reason why "happy couples" can't explain their amazingly consistent sex life is because they think differently.
The only way to change your sex life, is to change the way you think about it and/or assist your partner in changing the way she looks at sex.
I'll give you an example.
One day I was talking to a woman who referred to herself as nympho.
She said one day she made the decision to enjoy sex more with her partner.
She made the decision to look at him and "the act of having sex" in a better way.
That was it.
She didn't change the environment.
She didn't mix in new positions.
She just changed her focus.
She said before she could care less whether she had sex.
When it did happened, she would never climax.
However, this simple change not only made sex more pleasurable to her, in a short amount of time, but she became a "nympho", which is her way of stating that she couldn't get enough sex.
In most cases, a guy in a relationship will not have the luxury of his partner having a random epiphany that improves the sex life overnight.
However, he can still effect his partner's desire by getting her to focus on certain aspects of sex more often.
For example, he could say things that get her to focus on:
Here are the 2 main reasons: #1.
The guy has unintentionally reduced his sexual value (by his decisions, actions, beliefs and behavior) and he has no concept of this so he never improves.
From his perspective, his wife just doesn't enjoy sex as much as she did in the past.
#2.
The guy doesn't understand how to press her arousal buttons.
Most guys will suggest having sex as if it's an idea.
They would get better results if they increased sexual tension prior to initiating sex.
The greatest weight loss tactic I ever heard was from an actor on TV who talked about how everyone was so amazed at how he was able to lost so much weight.
He couldn't believe how many people were asking for his secret.
He would tell them something to the effect of: "This may sound boring, but my secret is I reduced my calorie intake and I exercised more.
" If you want to improve your sex life take the approach that is obvious and simple.
Focus on getting her to think about sex in a better way and getting her to think about you in a better way (increase your sexual value).
It's like the honeymoon never ended.
If you ever ask them what their secret is, they'll find it difficult to explain.
The truth is they don't know.
That would be like a drug addict asking a yoga instructor how she manages to avoid doing heroine three times a day.
From her perspective, it's not a struggle.
A similar thing takes place when a sexually frustrated guy tries to figure out the secrets of couples who have great sex.
The reason why "happy couples" can't explain their amazingly consistent sex life is because they think differently.
The only way to change your sex life, is to change the way you think about it and/or assist your partner in changing the way she looks at sex.
I'll give you an example.
One day I was talking to a woman who referred to herself as nympho.
She said one day she made the decision to enjoy sex more with her partner.
She made the decision to look at him and "the act of having sex" in a better way.
That was it.
She didn't change the environment.
She didn't mix in new positions.
She just changed her focus.
She said before she could care less whether she had sex.
When it did happened, she would never climax.
However, this simple change not only made sex more pleasurable to her, in a short amount of time, but she became a "nympho", which is her way of stating that she couldn't get enough sex.
In most cases, a guy in a relationship will not have the luxury of his partner having a random epiphany that improves the sex life overnight.
However, he can still effect his partner's desire by getting her to focus on certain aspects of sex more often.
For example, he could say things that get her to focus on:
- How much fun it is.
- How pleasurable it is.
- The deep connection they have with each other.
- How much they love each other.
Here are the 2 main reasons: #1.
The guy has unintentionally reduced his sexual value (by his decisions, actions, beliefs and behavior) and he has no concept of this so he never improves.
From his perspective, his wife just doesn't enjoy sex as much as she did in the past.
#2.
The guy doesn't understand how to press her arousal buttons.
Most guys will suggest having sex as if it's an idea.
They would get better results if they increased sexual tension prior to initiating sex.
The greatest weight loss tactic I ever heard was from an actor on TV who talked about how everyone was so amazed at how he was able to lost so much weight.
He couldn't believe how many people were asking for his secret.
He would tell them something to the effect of: "This may sound boring, but my secret is I reduced my calorie intake and I exercised more.
" If you want to improve your sex life take the approach that is obvious and simple.
Focus on getting her to think about sex in a better way and getting her to think about you in a better way (increase your sexual value).
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