"My mother said it was simple to keep a man, you must be a maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom..
" -- Jerry Hall When Jerry Hall said those famous words, she was talking about the ideal woman in the 1980's.
Probably not much has changed and the same kind of woman would still be attractive now.
The same goes for the women in our life, none of them want a one-dimensional, easy-to-figure-out guy.
Even the briefest survey of on-line women's magazines revealed that the list of traits that women go for in guys included loving, nerdy, tough, passionate and chivalrous.
The key to being her fantasy guy and giving her more erotic orgasms is to know which guy she wants and when...
Probably you have all of those traits in you, but not at once.
That is why roleplaying can help 'fill in the gaps'.
You get to be more chivalrous or more manly than normal.
One of the best tips for roleplaying is to 'be what you are not.
' Rugged men should dress in suits and ties occasionally.
Similarly business men should go and do some exciting or dangerous activity wearing some stereotypical 'macho' clothes.
The key is to keep her guessing and excited about each date, not knowing what to expect.
Variety is the Key to Your (Sex) Life Part of the thrill of sex comes from never quite having each other figured out and never forgetting to surprise each other.
Women love the emotional thrill of never quite knowing exactly what is coming.
Once she thinks she has got a handle on you, have fun mixing and matching your fantasies.
Turn up to a quick coffee wearing a suit or be really sexual at an expensive restaurant.
Sex is the best time to really mix the styles up and give her a great emotional rollercoaster ride.
Having frantic sex, with soft sensuous kissing is a great example.
Likewise soft, loving intercourse can be broken up with more hardcore moments without losing the vibe.
Remember it is just a fantasy, so give her a couple of different ones at once.
Women ultimately want a well-rounded guy.
The perfect guy for them is one who can give them different things at different times.
Where guys go wrong, both in and out of the bedroom, is that they only give one thing to their partner.
So have fun being all the different sides of your personality.
On the other hand, there is nothing wrong with being sexual all the time either.
Even Jerry Hall agrees, the second half of her quote reads, "I said I'd hire the other two and take care of the bedroom bit!"