OK, if you have just recently been through a break up then you are probably feeling pretty bad right now...
Crazy emotions and clouded judgment can lead a lot of people to saying the wrong things and ruining their relationship for good, make sure you're not one of these people...
Space and Time The first thing you need to worry about is giving your ex time to clear their thoughts and just be away from you for a little while.
This helps them get themselves situated and helps you to get your emotions in check as well...
You may even find that your ex starts to miss you but don't be too quick to run to them, you really have to make sure you have certain issues taken care of first before getting back together...
Fixing Underlying Issues Underlying issues are the problems that are not always easy to see but can kill relationships...
It's little thing that equal up to huge problems...
Things like jealousy, being insecure, being needy, lying, fighting and bickering too much...
The list could go on and on but the point is that you need to figure out what was troubling your relationship so that you can fix those issues before getting back together.
If issues are not solved then you will more than likely find yourself in an on again off again relationship, which is not good for anyone.
After you have fixed some of the issues that were plaguing your relationship then it is time to go into getting your ex back mode...