Saving Your Marriage After an Affair: Commit to a Better Sex Life at Home
Sex sells, but it also works for saving your marriage after an affair.
If you discovered that your husband's reasons for cheating were, at least according to him, related to the lack of excitement in your sex life among other things, then listen up! Now, I know sex isn't everything to you - and trust me, it's not everything to him either - but the truth is a strong sexual connection is part of the glue that keeps a marriage together when things seem to get lax and boring.
Now it's normal for married couples to experience a lack of creativity together when they've been together a long time.
Have you realized that perhaps, at some point, that you did stop putting effort into spicing up your marriage with your husband, despite his cries for sexual excitement? And on the flip side, did your husband ever lovingly mention that your interest in sex seemed to hit a low point and it concerned him? Hopefully, he communicated his needs to you before stepping out.
If not, then, well then communication is something else he obviously needs to work on while you two try to fix your marriage.
Making the Commitment to a Better Sex Life at Home Committing to a better sex life is necessary to keep the home fires burning.
Stroking your husband's ego as you make attempts to please him sexually and emotionally will not only show your devotion to saving your marriage, it also helps you rediscover your deeply-ignored sex kitten roaring to get out.
Maybe you're lacking a little sexual confidence after discovering his affair, and perhaps you're even disinterested in even trying to please him since he's already disrespected your marriage as it is.
These feelings, while honest and understandable, will only serve as a barrier in your relationship with one another.
Invest in some sexy pole dancing classes - yea, I said pole dancing classes - so you can learn to reconnect with your inner sex kitten and restore confidence you haven't felt in years.
You might also learn a few moves, and, overall, get over the fear of looking and feeling unattractive in comparison to the other woman your husband turned to during his affair.
Communicating to Spice Up Your Sex Life for a Better Sex Life in Your Marriage Communicating sexual desires with your partner will also work to your advantage when it comes to saving your marriage.
As I mentioned, you may have experienced boredom when it came to experiencing sexual pleasure with your husband (and vice versa), but this doesn't mean that you'll have to feel this forever.
Learning to express what you desire in the bedroom - everything from where you want him to touch you to exactly how he should touch you - is an important ingredient to spicing up your marriage.
It also serves as an excellent form of foreplay as well.
Make time for just the two of you to get together for an erotic interlude that will allow you both to open up sexually with each other.
You might have been having sex together for years, and both know what buttons to press, but this doesn't mean you guys can't discuss new things to explore that will probably send one or both of you over the edge and to the moon with lust.
Saving your marriage after an affair requires a lot of work on both your and his part - but this doesn't mean it has to be boring! Use sexual experimentation and improvement to improve the sex life the two of you have and experience a magnificent reawakening in each other as well as within yourselves.
If you discovered that your husband's reasons for cheating were, at least according to him, related to the lack of excitement in your sex life among other things, then listen up! Now, I know sex isn't everything to you - and trust me, it's not everything to him either - but the truth is a strong sexual connection is part of the glue that keeps a marriage together when things seem to get lax and boring.
Now it's normal for married couples to experience a lack of creativity together when they've been together a long time.
Have you realized that perhaps, at some point, that you did stop putting effort into spicing up your marriage with your husband, despite his cries for sexual excitement? And on the flip side, did your husband ever lovingly mention that your interest in sex seemed to hit a low point and it concerned him? Hopefully, he communicated his needs to you before stepping out.
If not, then, well then communication is something else he obviously needs to work on while you two try to fix your marriage.
Making the Commitment to a Better Sex Life at Home Committing to a better sex life is necessary to keep the home fires burning.
Stroking your husband's ego as you make attempts to please him sexually and emotionally will not only show your devotion to saving your marriage, it also helps you rediscover your deeply-ignored sex kitten roaring to get out.
Maybe you're lacking a little sexual confidence after discovering his affair, and perhaps you're even disinterested in even trying to please him since he's already disrespected your marriage as it is.
These feelings, while honest and understandable, will only serve as a barrier in your relationship with one another.
Invest in some sexy pole dancing classes - yea, I said pole dancing classes - so you can learn to reconnect with your inner sex kitten and restore confidence you haven't felt in years.
You might also learn a few moves, and, overall, get over the fear of looking and feeling unattractive in comparison to the other woman your husband turned to during his affair.
Communicating to Spice Up Your Sex Life for a Better Sex Life in Your Marriage Communicating sexual desires with your partner will also work to your advantage when it comes to saving your marriage.
As I mentioned, you may have experienced boredom when it came to experiencing sexual pleasure with your husband (and vice versa), but this doesn't mean that you'll have to feel this forever.
Learning to express what you desire in the bedroom - everything from where you want him to touch you to exactly how he should touch you - is an important ingredient to spicing up your marriage.
It also serves as an excellent form of foreplay as well.
Make time for just the two of you to get together for an erotic interlude that will allow you both to open up sexually with each other.
You might have been having sex together for years, and both know what buttons to press, but this doesn't mean you guys can't discuss new things to explore that will probably send one or both of you over the edge and to the moon with lust.
Saving your marriage after an affair requires a lot of work on both your and his part - but this doesn't mean it has to be boring! Use sexual experimentation and improvement to improve the sex life the two of you have and experience a magnificent reawakening in each other as well as within yourselves.
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