Do you think you know what subjects turn men off? Do you think you can just talk and talk about anything and the guy will be fine with it? Are you the type who wants to be utterly and completely honest with the guy right from the start and you don't think any topic is off limits? Well, if you've noticed men walking away from you after a short amount of time talking with you, this should be a clue.
You are saying something to turn them off.
What? Read on to find out.
Whether you broke up with him years ago or last week, talking about your old boyfriend won't win you many points.
To a large extent, no matter how you put it, this new man sitting across from you simply doesn't care about your ex.
If you happen to mention him in passing, make sure he passes fast.
You don't want to dwell on a past relationship; good or bad.
Another caustic subject can be your intentions for this relationship.
If you have marriage on your mind, try to leave that notion at home and don't bring it on the date, or even the first few dates.
You're not being deceitful by not bringing it up, you're simply taking it one step at a time.
It's kind of like going in for a job interview and immediately asking when the vacation time is.
Sure it's important you know, but putting it out there right away sends a bad message.
And finally, don't ask about money.
This is so crude and shallow, it's hard to work your way out of the hole you'll have dug for yourself.
Over time his financial status will come to light and you won't end up looking like a petty little woman for having asked.
Sure we want to know what we're getting into when we meet a guy; is he a lazy free loader living at his mother's or is he a hard worker who owns his own home? But let the natural flow of the conversation divulge these facts instead of coming straight out and asking.
Chances are, if life is going good, he'll be proud to tell you of his standing.
Avoid these topics on your next date and see how it goes.