How to Have Great Sex - The C"s For a Prelude to Sizzling Lovemaking
One of the major mysteries and dilemmas we all have encountered at one point or another in our lives involves the question of how to have great sex.
You know what? Figuring it out isn't rocket science.
It's just finding the balance between what you and your partner wants.
Don't Dread the "C" Word(s) Let's face it: there are some things your partner loves that aren't your favourite things in the world to do.
And vice-versa.
The trick is to find a middle ground that both of you can accept - somewhere you can Compromise (with a capital C).
She likes oral sex being done on her, but doesn't like to reciprocate? Then talk to her (or communicate) about how you'd really love her to do that to you, just as you love doing it to her.
Ask her why she doesn't like oral sex.
Find the reason why; it's a start to finding a way to resolve the issue.
Compromise.
Communicate.
Those are two very important "C" words in any relationship - including sexual relationships.
The Old-Fashioned "C" That Still Works Wonders...
...
is Courtship.
And what that means is gallantry and sweetness in such small ways that nevertheless have such a great impact on women.
It doesn't necessarily mean the trappings of traditional courtship like flowers, candlelit dinners, and chocolate (though those can't hurt!).
Show your courtship in manners of Consideration (there's another powerful "C" word for you!).
Such as truly listening to and absorbing what she's saying.
Such as laughing WITH her and not AT her when she makes a faux pas.
Such as something as seemingly insignificant as gently tucking a stray strand of hair behind her ear.
Such as giving her your full attention when you're with her -- and not letting your neck and head swing to follow the sight of the pretty woman passing by.
Compromise.
Communicate.
Court.
It doesn't matter if you're targeting a woman you've known for only an hour or one you've known for 50 years.
Accomplish these "C" words successfully and you're well on your way to establishing the basics - and more! - of how to have great sex.
You know what? Figuring it out isn't rocket science.
It's just finding the balance between what you and your partner wants.
Don't Dread the "C" Word(s) Let's face it: there are some things your partner loves that aren't your favourite things in the world to do.
And vice-versa.
The trick is to find a middle ground that both of you can accept - somewhere you can Compromise (with a capital C).
She likes oral sex being done on her, but doesn't like to reciprocate? Then talk to her (or communicate) about how you'd really love her to do that to you, just as you love doing it to her.
Ask her why she doesn't like oral sex.
Find the reason why; it's a start to finding a way to resolve the issue.
Compromise.
Communicate.
Those are two very important "C" words in any relationship - including sexual relationships.
The Old-Fashioned "C" That Still Works Wonders...
...
is Courtship.
And what that means is gallantry and sweetness in such small ways that nevertheless have such a great impact on women.
It doesn't necessarily mean the trappings of traditional courtship like flowers, candlelit dinners, and chocolate (though those can't hurt!).
Show your courtship in manners of Consideration (there's another powerful "C" word for you!).
Such as truly listening to and absorbing what she's saying.
Such as laughing WITH her and not AT her when she makes a faux pas.
Such as something as seemingly insignificant as gently tucking a stray strand of hair behind her ear.
Such as giving her your full attention when you're with her -- and not letting your neck and head swing to follow the sight of the pretty woman passing by.
Compromise.
Communicate.
Court.
It doesn't matter if you're targeting a woman you've known for only an hour or one you've known for 50 years.
Accomplish these "C" words successfully and you're well on your way to establishing the basics - and more! - of how to have great sex.
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