If things have changed with your husband or boyfriend and you're starting to feel like the relationship might need to end. You might be wondering how to stop break up. I bet part of the problem is there are things your husband is doing that drive you crazy or really disappoint you.

There is a great tool or tactic you can employ to train him to improve. What you need to understand is that without knowing it, we can train someone to behave badly. It's strange, but while we think we're trying to remind them to do something, we might just be training them to do the opposite thing--sounds weird doesn't it?

A big thing to keep in mind is that nagging can kill a relationship. So if the problem is that your man says he is going to do something and he doesn't do it and it's making you crazy, the worse thing you can do is nag him about it. And for many people that is the natural reaction. Even if you are trying to be nice about it, it can still come across as nagging.

So what you want to do is train your boyfriend to act the way you want him to act. The way to do this is to reward his good behavior. If he does something he says he is going to do compliment him on it and let him know it is really appreciated. If you consistently do this it will train him to do these types of things. You see, we like to avoid pain and we go towards pleasure. By following this technique and giving him pleasure you will be fixing his bad habits. The byproduct is that you both are feeling better about yourselves and each other.

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