Many women want to know how they can inspire a man to fall deeply in love with them, and how they help keep it this way.
Here are some tips that can help, although obviously you can't force somebody into loving you.
Either it's there or it isn't.
Don't Expect the World Don't idealize him and the relationship.
Most females have grandiose expectations of romance that their boyfriends and husbands can't possibly live up to and therefore the union was doomed right from the start.
All you should expect is companionship, fun, a good connection, and friendship with the very real possibility of becoming much more to each other.
Always Enjoy the Moment Instead of always pushing towards the next step with your man, take a moment to stop and smell the roses.
You aren't really enjoying him and celebrating the relationship if all you think about is ways to turn it into something else that you consider better.
All you have is today, so cherish it and worry about the rest when you get there.
Be Positive No Matter What A positive attitude can be a ray of light and an inspiration when it's used i the right situations and wielded properly; if you don't use tact and just spout off inspirational nonsense, it is downright obnoxious.
For the most part, however, you should avoid pouting and complaining about yourself, your life, or anything in your life that bothers you.
It's fine to vent, but move on immediately after it's all out of your system and don't return to it.
It's definitely not an attractive quality to hold onto a grudge or not be able to stop griping about something.
Be There for Him and Help Out if Needed You can establish yourself firmly in his life as something that he won't want to let go of by being a constant source of support and assistance.
You don't have to sacrifice your own life and happiness in order to do this; all it takes is being less selfish and putting his needs ahead of your own when it's needed.
This is also a good way to judge how well he treats you; if he always fails to give you the same assistance and selflessness when you need it, then you know the relationship is unbalanced and you should probably get out while you can.
Have Your Own Life An independent woman with a full life and priorities of her own is very likely to have a man fall in love with her.
Men like a girl who won't be overly clingy and needy, and this happens most often when the girl doesn't have enough going on in her own life.
Give Him Great Sex A good sex life is a crucial part of any strong relationship.
However, if you're aiming to make him fall madly in love with you, you might want to step it up a notch in this department.
Men can have their emotions linked directly to sex, and it's pretty much impossible for them to fall hard for a girl if the sex is not good.
It isn't hard to give him the best sex he's ever had.
Men like a girl who expressed herself vocally during sex, and who has fun with the experience.
Confidence with your own body and not being afraid to be naked is also a big plus.
Be Emotionally Secure and Stable If you're emotionally unstable, a guy won't be seeing the real you and therefore won't have a chance to fall in love with you.
Or, if you give off the impression of being particularly unstable, a guy will notice eventually and want to run like hell.