How comfortable are you with the notion of flirting with men? Are your flirting tactics successful? Did you ever wonder if perhaps you were going about it the wrong way? There's no doubt that some women are better at flirting than others, but what's their secret? What are they doing that you're not? Read on and learn a few tricks.
The first line of approach is as simple as a smile.
A warm and genuine smile not only brightens your face, but is an immediate and clear invitation.
That doesn't mean you should slap on a silly grin and hold it.
Offer a gentle smile as he looks your way.
If you're with friends, the smile will come naturally as you talk and laugh.
Let the world around you see the bubbly and fun woman you are.
As you scan the restaurant or bar, let your gaze rest on him for just a moment.
When his eyes meet yours, your smile should warm your eyes.
It's a clear and unmistakable invitation for him to approach you.
Now that you have him up close, let your body talk.
Touch his arm as he speaks, or gently tap his hand when you respond.
When he talks to you and you can't hear him well, don't ask him to repeat what he's said.
Instead, lean in to better hear him and keep your own voice down in order to lure him closer.
Not only will your conversation be more intimate, but you'll surely touch a strong chord of desire as your lips brush against his ear and you'll give him a chance to breath in your scent.
Even if the music or conversation around you is loud, you don't want to leave him with the unpleasant echo of your shouting voice in his ear.
Watch his response.
Part of successful flirting is in reading his reaction.
Does he back away and look at you strangely when you get too close? Simmer down; perhaps you're pushing too hard, too fast.
Is he receptive to your touch? Does he smile and invite more? Reach for his tie or pat his chest as you compliment his attire.
If he is seated beside you, lay your hand on his knee occasionally as you speak.
It'll emphasize your words and lets him know you want to get closer.
Flirting with men is really a matter of making him feel you're interested in him and that he can approach you without going all out and gushing all over him.
Now that the secret is out, go have fun.