Looking around you, various colors and styles of cellphone will shock your eyes. Everyone in this country, no matter he is poor or rich, old or young, they will have a cellphone. Besides, for some of them it is not only a cellphone but close friends, even more closely than their parents and lovers. Especially, the young girls, they buy many beautiful decorations for their cellphone, such as the colorful cheap pom poms and some wooden embellishments. A survey finds that about 80% of people controlled by their cellphone that means they cant leave their cellphone. What worse is that about 90% of lovers said that they are controlled by their cellphone? So, here I want to ask a question for everyone, what is the status of the cellphone in their relationships?
Most relationship are started from cell phone, girls and boys exchange their phone number and express their feeling by calls and massages, at the very beginning they never thought they will controlled by the matchmaker. Because, they dont know cellphone can cause many misunderstanding between them. The famous film he just not that into you is a good example for this situation, in the film, the director blind the guys feeling closely with the cellphone, it told the female, if the guy doesnt call you all the time or over 6 per day , it means they just not that into you. In the real life, many girls believe these words, so they always complain their boyfriends ignore them because they dont reply their massages and call in time. If the guy told them they have no time to, it will be regarded as an excuse. For guys, most of them are not so crazy about the cellphone as the girls, when they are on working or study, they may forget to watch the phone, and once they watch them, they found their cellphone was crowded with their girlfriends massages and callings, many of them will very worry, because they cant find a good explanation for not call back, as all the reasons could be regarded as excuses.
Many relationships are over on the cellphone. Just as one boy said cellphone sometimes likes a time bomb, you dont whats time it will explode. About 70% say they lost their girlfriends because of cellphone. Someone said they girlfriends always check their cellphone at regular time, except you cancel your massages all the time, but you cant cancel all of it, because it can arouse girls doubts. Some boys admitted that they have a love affair because of the cellphone. As man always wants to keep girls number, if the girl contact you all the time, you will reply them for polite, but if you reply them, they will sent you more massage s to you. This massage may have no other meaning at the beginning but because the suspicious girlfriend, they two people will be push into one trench by the girlfriend. At last, the unhappy thing becomes the truth and the boy doesnt how to explain, as everything becomes true. Xiaohua has this experience. He loved his ex-girlfriend very much and never thought say goodbye to her until the other day, his ex finds a dubious massage from his cellphone. The massage is sent by a girl who running a decoupage supplies shop on EBay. He used to but some cheap sketchbooks from her, and the girl write a massage beginning with honey, that just her customary title to all the customer , but his boyfriend don't believe them. During the girl persuade him and his girlfriend, he found him fell in love with the girl. But his girlfriend never knows she herself is the matchmaker.
After you finish this article, are you plan to put down your cellphone, dont let the cellphone ruin your relationship.