When my friend told me that dirty talk was the missing link to a happy, intimate sex life, I laughed her off.
"What is dirty talk anyway?" I asked her.
"Are you trying to suggest that I should turn into a pervert in a bid to spice up my sex life?" To me, talking dirty meant using very explicit words that would leave tongues wagging if mentioned in the public domain.
Unknown to me, talking dirty didn't mean all that.
As a matter of fact I discovered that how to dirty talk was an art, which can only be perfected through practice.
But was it true that dirty talking to my man was going to solve issues in the bedroom? I decided to find out.
I went looking for dirty phrases and decided to use them on my man.
Out of the many I compiled, here are the best lines that worked for me; 1.
Nobody turns me on like you do...
When I used on this my man; I realized that he instantly got interested in having sex with me more often.
Somehow, I felt that he really took pride in knowing that I found him sexy.
To a large extent I made him feel that he was my sexual desire.
I quickly noted that knowing how to talk dirty is all about making him feel good about himself and what he can do sexually.
2.
I love that, don't stop...
The sheer thought that my man was making me feel good made him work harder.
When I use this line every time we're making love he asks me "like that Hun?" Or "Do you want some more?" It's needless to say that I take pleasure in knowing that my man loves making love to me and gives it to me like it's the first time he's doing it.
3.
Let me ride you...
Men love being in control during sex.
However, there's nothing sexier than letting your man know you want to take the lead.
Seriously, try this line especially when you're in the middle of the act and you will be surprised how your man will be ready to let you take charge.
When you tell your man you want to ride him, do it like you mean it when he finally lets you.
Make sure you do it such a way that the next time you don't have to remind him that you can come on top and make him feel like he's never felt before.
In other words, don't just learn to talk dirty, back it up with action.
4.
I can't wait until we are alone so I can give it to you...
Turning on a man is all about making him anticipate the sex.
I tried this line on my man when we were at a friend's party and he kept looking at his watch.
He looked at me sensually as if he wanted us to have sex in our friend's bedroom.
When I moved close to him that night, he kissed me in a way that made me feel he was really turned on.
As we got home later than night, you can rightly guess he started kissing me immediately as we got into a cab.
Do I really need to tell you what happened in the bedroom? 5.
I am coming...
Until I discovered how to dirty talk my man, I never announced when I am about to climax.
This was because I never thought it was important.
Little did I know that these words were so powerful, and I realized that any time I told him I am about to climax, he increased the thrust rate to ensure we enjoyed the moment together.
It also meant he could hold longer now because he didn't want to climax before me and leave me unsatisfied.
In short, his sex drive has increased.
I now know what my friend meant when she told me I need to learn how to talk dirty to my man.
We now have sex more often, we are more intimate than we used to be and the bond between us has greatly increased.
Nowadays he looks forward to having sex with me because he knows what to expect.