How to Make Your Dating Profile Stand Out From the Rest on a Website
- 1). Use the right picture. Right or wrong, people get their first impression of you with the picture you post. You want one that focuses on you--preferably without anyone else in the picture and with a good look at your face--but you also want something that reflects something unique and appealing. Maybe it shows you in a great costume you wore for Halloween, or engaging in an activity like feeding an elephant. Anything that departs from normal pictures of weddings or tourist snaps is a good idea.
- 2). Prepare a description of yourself that departs from the norm. Most people write their descriptions in first person, delivering a boiler plate of who they are and what they're looking for. You can spice that up by changing the format. Pen your description as a short poem, or write in third person as if you were the main character in a novel. Be sure you stay on topic--you still want to let people know who you are--and don't attempt anything beyond your skills as a writer. But a unique description that's fun to read will entice more people to respond.
- 3). Pick a good tagline. Most online dating sites attach a brief "title" to your profile, consisting of a few words quickly describing who you are. Think of this as an advertisement: you want it to grab the viewer's attention and linger in the mind. Try to come up with something humorous and catchy. Alternately, you can take a sincere approach and try to present some unique aspect about yourself. If you don't feel sufficiently witty, you can borrow someone else's purple prose: find a quote from a favorite author which you feel encapsulates you best. Stay away from song quotes--they're used often on online sites--but a literary quote or a piece of poetry can lend a distinctive tone to your profile.